live Remote into the family PCs, the laptop in the den, or Dad's box across town — through our own relay at rustdesk.delarosafams.com. Nothing goes through anyone else's servers.
Install it, then open the app once so it registers a device ID.
RustDesk → Settings → Network → ID/Relay Server, then enter:
Home Wi-Fi reaches the relay directly on the LAN; from anywhere else it goes out to our line and back in. Same server name either way, so nothing to change when you leave the house.